So seeing this quote today made me reflect on the words we shared last night, as I finished this conversation with words to the effect that I was prepared to stay single, as the thought of a relationship, the commitment and chance that I may feel vulnerable again is way too scary, too confronting and outright too damn frightening.
Easier to stay safe and exclusively me.
So back to early thoughts of mine, how do I change this mind set, how do I present myself as someone willing to give a relationship ago, wholly though and without fear of losing myself.
It comes back to the walls we build, the older we get, the walls they get a'higher and I am sure none of us want those walls, but they comfort us in a time of alone.
So my discovery now will be the removal of those invisible walls that protect the one I know as me: Tania Marie.